When planning a party at home, one of the most important decisions is whether or not to serve alcohol. There are many factors to consider, such as the age of the guests, the time of day, and the party’s location. Ultimately, whether or not to serve alcohol is up to the host. A user asked on the forum, “Am I wrong for not specifically stating I won’t serve alcohol at my house?.”
Here is the full story!
THE BACKSTORY
The original poster (OP) is a 22-year-old woman who moved out of her home. She wanted to invite her family for dinner, but they lived far away and were worried about returning home late after dinner. So, she changed the plan to brunch or lunch instead. This way, she could also show her family her new place.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
OP invited seven family members over and ensured many choices for food and drinks. There was coffee, tea, juices, smoothies, eggs, bacon, sausages, salmon, french toast, waffles, and fresh fruits to enjoy.
OP’S BROTHER GOT UPSET
OP’s family knows she can’t have alcohol. But her brother still got upset because there weren’t any drinks like mimosas or bloody marys at the brunch.
WHAT OP’S MOTHER SAID?
OP’s mother agreed, but not in a mean way. She said that if OP had told her no alcohol, she would have brought some.
WHAT DID OP SAY?
OP explained that she thought they wouldn’t want to drink at 1 PM, especially when they had to drive. Also, she didn’t mean to keep it a secret that there will be no alcohol.
HOW OP’S BROTHER REACTS
Later, OP’s brother said that if he knew there was no alcohol, he wouldn’t have come so far and called OP silly for not telling him.
Some of OP’s friends think it’s impolite not to tell guests, but most believe he’s being mean. So OP is asking whether she is right or wrong?
Here are some responses she got!
BROTHER HAS A ALCOHOL ISSUE
“Sounds like your brother has a pretty significant alcohol issue.”
EXPECTING ALCOHOL IS NOT REASONABLE
“Expecting alcohol at an event that does not explicitly mention serving alcohol is unreasonable, primarily when hosted by someone who doesn’t drink (and the reason for not drinking is irrelevant) and around lunchtime.”
THIS IS NOT A NORMAL BEHAVIOUR.
“Your family won’t show up unless there are free drinks? Your brother called you stupid for not telling him there were no drinks?
“These people require a program; this is not normal behavior.”
THEY SHOULD HAVE ASKED YOU
“It’s strange to me that they would expect alcohol to be served at your place when you dont drink, and that is a known fact. They should have asked if they had any interest or doubt about it.”
NOT YOUR PROBLEM
“If your brother can’t hang out with you without having a drink, that’s his problem, not yours.”
NEVER HOST A PARTY AGAIN
“Never spend a penny hosting these people in your house. If someone you know doesn’t drink is hosting something, you always ask if alcohol will be there or if it’s allowed.”
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